Words Are Containers For Meaning8/31/2020 You can never be fully known. You are so dynamic that at any given moment you may have a realization that changes everything inside you shifts and no one else knows. I have had these shifts throughout my life. The people around me through no fault of their own were interacting with an outdated version of me. This is why many people refuse to think outside the box; the box that they have been programmed or chosen to trap themselves in. The castle that their mind lives in may actually be a prison. It is scary to open yourself up to the possibility that what you have known is wrong or is simply holding you back. We are raised with ideas as children that are reaffirmed as we grow. You simply find people to validate your preexisting ideas and refuse to interact with those that challenge you, or you take the hard road and go against your program and find something new. I go into this in the Are You Conscious Series (which I encourage you to read as it is the blog that took the most time to put together and I believe contains some really good ideas.) We are entering into a time of great divide and societal polarization. Can you consider the idea that no group is or can be entirely right all the time. It is very simple to distort the meaning of words. If you present an idea to a person that conflicts with their goal or world view it can be twisted. As I grow older the more I see that wisdom is knowing when to refrain from speaking. You can tell people the truth of themselves but if they are not ready to hear it they will consciously or subconsciously reject it. It can be very frustrating to communicate when this is the case. Words are containers for meaning. It is too easy to get hung up on the container (word itself) instead of the meaning. In society we have all sorts of ways of speaking to say things without actually saying them. I challenge you to open your mind up to the idea that you are wrong. To the idea that you have a neurological bias that does not allow you to see yourself for what and who you really are. I am in a relationship with a beautiful woman who I love. I am also a very difficult person to be in relationship with. I spend a lot of time thinking about words because as my relationship has progressed I have seen more and more that we are creating a new language together. I have my way of saying things with my meanings, and she has hers. We must often translate our words and make concessions in our preferred communication styles in order to relate to one another. I have found that many times the solution to a dispute is simply finding different words to say what I meant. Of course, tone and unspoken communication (like the look on my face) are also major contributors to being heard. All around me I see the manipulations and logical fallacies that people use on each other. They come easy and in my own relationship I know it would be easier to use them than to do the work of translating. I must be willing to question my own thoughts. Why do I really say this or that? What does it mean to me? How is it received? I fear society will continue to dig deeper into a polarized state of interaction, where two conflicting ideologies can't overlap to create actual communication. The truth is the left needs the right and right needs the left. Order needs chaos and chaos needs order. The real question is always how much. I fear that true communication will be lost and instead of listening to your ideological enemy you will simply mock them. The funny thing is that I see both sides behaving in similar ways. Relationships are hard. Find someone that disagrees with you and work on understanding why they think what they think. Next Blog
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I am not up on pop culture but stumbled across a tag line that said WAP is the number one song in the world. I thought to myself "what is WAP," so I looked it up. This is what I found. I'm currently raising my soon to be wife Angela's six year old child, Caden. The truth is, if this is the number one song on the billboard hot 100 and in the world, it is going to be tough on me. It is extremely explicit but here are the lyrics to the song. Read them to see what the general population is programming into it's minds: [Intro: Cardi B, Al "T" McLaran & Megan Thee Stallion] Whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house (Hol' up) I said certified freak, seven days a week Wet-ass pussy, make that pullout game weak, woo (Ah) [Chorus: Cardi B] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Yeah, you fuckin' with some wet-ass pussy Bring a bucket and a mop for this wet-ass pussy Give me everything you got for this wet-ass pussy [Verse 1: Cardi B & Megan Thee Stallion] Beat it up, nigga, catch a charge Extra large and extra hard Put this pussy right in your face Swipe your nose like a credit card Hop on top, I wanna ride I do a kegel while it's inside Spit in my mouth, look in my eyes This pussy is wet, come take a dive Tie me up like I'm surprised Let's roleplay, I'll wear a disguise I want you to park that big Mack truck right in this little garage Make it cream, make me scream Out in public, make a scene I don't cook, I don't clean But let me tell you how I got this ring (Ayy, ayy) [Verse 2: Megan Thee Stallion] Gobble me, swallow me, drip down the side of me (Yeah) Quick, jump out 'fore you let it get inside of me (Yeah) I tell him where to put it, never tell him where I'm 'bout to be (Huh) I'll run down on him 'fore I have a nigga runnin' me (Pow, pow, pow) Talk your shit, bite your lip (Yeah) Ask for a car while you ride that dick (While you ride that dick) You really ain't never gotta fuck him for a thang (Yeah) He already made his mind up 'fore he came (Ayy, ah) Now get your boots and your coat for this wet-ass pussy (Ah, ah, ah) He bought a phone just for pictures of this wet-ass pussy (Click, click, click) Pay my tuition just to kiss me on this wet-ass pussy (Mwah, mwah, mwah) Now make it rain if you wanna see some wet-ass pussy (Yeah, yeah) [Verse 3: Cardi B & Megan Thee Stallion] Look, I need a hard hitter, need a deep stroker Need a Henny drinker, need a weed smoker Not a garter snake, I need a king cobra With a hook in it, hope it lean over He got some money, then that's where I'm headed Pussy A1 just like his credit He got a beard, well, I'm tryna wet it I let him taste it, now he diabetic I don't wanna spit, I wanna gulp I wanna gag, I wanna choke I want you to touch that lil' dangly thing that swing in the back of my throat My head game is fire, punani Dasani It's goin' in dry and it's comin' out soggy I ride on that thing like the cops is behind me (Yeah, ah) I spit on his mic and now he tryna sign me, woo [Verse 4: Megan Thee Stallion] Your honor, I'm a freak bitch, handcuffs, leashes Switch my wig, make him feel like he cheatin' Put him on his knees, give him somethin' to believe in Never lost a fight, but I'm lookin' for a beatin' (Ah) In the food chain, I'm the one that eat ya If he ate my ass, he's a bottom-feeder Big D stand for big demeanor I could make ya bust before I ever meet ya If it don't hang, then he can't bang You can't hurt my feelings, but I like pain If he fuck me and ask "Whose is it?" When I ride the dick, I'ma spell my name, ah [Chorus: Cardi B] Yeah, yeah, yeah Yeah, you fuckin' with some wet-ass pussy Bring a bucket and a mop for this wet-ass pussy Give me everything you got for this wet-ass pussy Now from the top, make it drop, that's some wet-ass pussy Now get a bucket and a mop, that's some wet-ass pussy I'm talkin' wap, wap, wap, that's some wet-ass pussy Macaroni in a pot, that's some wet-ass pussy, huh [Outro: Al "T" McLaran] There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house There's some whores in this house I was a punk rocker when I was young and I admit that I listened to some very questionable stuff but the fact that the world has made this number one song and even hailed it as empowering towards women is sad to me. The "artist" of the song, Cardi B just did an interview with presidential candidate, Joe Biden. Of course she is someone who we should all look to as a role model and follow her political leanings. This is information telling us about the mentality of society. I was raised religious with lots of talk about sin. Now that I am not religious I have higher ethics because I don't identify as a sinner and can't ask for forgiveness whenever I "sin". Instead I am left with the reality of my choices and personal responsibility. I support rational ethics. When it comes to sex, both individuals and society must continue to push things further and further to get the same result. Not many people are thinking about brain science when they are thinking about sex but anything you do that is followed by a pleasure (orgasm) will train the brain and will begin a process of desensitization. The direction things are going fast is such an extreme glorification of sexualization that behaviors that where once believed to be obscene and illegal are now seen as standard. In a democracy the majority wins. If the majority believes that this is ok, then from a democratic position it is. I believe a correction must take place. Things have been set in motion and cannot be stopped. The decline of society intellectually is well under way and the removal of traditional education will stunt the school-aged generation and result in a complete neurological dependance on technology. There will be immense chaos that will lead to order sweeping in to pick up the pieces. We are seeing the complete abandonment of rational thought. This is not a fight it is a trend. I see it and it is not up to me to correct anything outside of myself. When the majority of society is dependent on pills, alcohol, weed, technology, and taught that political correctness supersedes reason, we are surely in the phase of decline. I now root for the correction in hopes that the inevitable results of theses societal choices will be some type of justice to this world. I know it will get worse before it gets better. I am just glad I am in a low population area with plenty of nature. Far away from big cities where minds are completely consumed by political correctness, 5G, and...WAP. A regression into fear-based religion is not the solution. A step toward rational ethics that involves total personal accountability is. I will not be surprised when complete chaos results from this destructive mentality. Perhaps the most ironic thing about this video is its applause amidst the massive push to respect woman. Many woman are promoting themselves this way. This is confusing for men: I can't hold the door for a woman because it would be considered chauvinistic, but I can play this song? Seems pretty absurd to be honest. How does this song suggest women should be treated? Feminism is dead; it has been hijacked. In discussing this Angela said "This video is clearly derogatory toward women, but questioning it is politicly incorrect and considered derogatory towards woman." Raising the standard for woman, men and people in general are politicly incorrect. The storm clouds are gathering and time is speeding up. Prepare yourself. The locations that have the highest levels of political correctness and disregard for traditional reason and the celebration of the WAP mentality will be hit the hardest, and suffer the most. These locations will eat themselves alive. The election in November will be difficult no matter what happens. I am concerned that as society in general seems to have no idea about brains or how they are programed, we will dive even deeper into "kink". Unfortunately, pedophilia will be the next inevitable step in the path toward total moral decline in the modern age. We have seen this in media, entertainment, and even newer laws being passed (like this). As children become sexualized, more and more adults who have pushed themselves farther and farther into the fringes of sexualization will likely find pedophilia as a new sick fetish. Where will it go from there is a pretty disturbing thought. There are 10,000 ways for me to say how stupid this song really is. I will say how sad; that this is supported by many women. If I had a daughter I would not just hope the WAP isn't her favorite song, but that she would be vehemently opposed to it in support of her own self respect. I guess I hoped that feminism would result in men no longer treating woman as whores. Instead, woman's liberation has resulted in woman being free to join men in referring to themselves as whores. I'm referring to tag line of the song "there's some whores in this house." From my perspective, this is sad. What do you think? Next BlogStorm Clouds Are Gathering8/22/2020 Storm clouds are gathering. I expected things to settle down more during the summer. I was wrong, they have not. I will say I am glad I took action to move out of California when I did. Where I lived in California currently has the worst air quality in the world, surrounded by fires from 3 sides and ocean from another. I am glad I left as I don't see the fires or any other other problems in California getting better any time soon. The University of California now requires an annual flu vaccine for all students and staff by November 1, 2020. Other states like Massachussets are also pushing for mandatory vaccines in order to attend school. "Massachusetts will require all schoolchildren to get influenza vaccines to stay enrolled in public schools and day cares. The mandate makes it the first state to require flu shots for children over the age of 5. These steps are all preparation for a covid vaccine in the near future. I have said it won't be required unless you want to do any number of things that will involve the public space. Truth is, I haven't been following this very closely lately. I see the direction things are going. I have taken the steps I can. Because I am not on social media and haven't been for a long time I am not hit with the constant back and forth of opinions and heresay out there. I'm preparing for winter. I'm trying to get everything ready. I don't know if Caden will be able to go to school or not. It was set to start and now is canceled for a couple of weeks due to an elevator repair necessary for the "social distancing" protocols. We'll see what happens. It will be interesting to see the development of school age children while all of this is going on. Online schooling will inevitably push society towards more advanced and invasive technology. I expect September 11th, Halloween and especially the election in November to be extremely chaotic, by design. I originally thought that by next spring things would settle down but I don't think things will ever go back to pre- covid "normal". I can't imagine that Christmas or New Years will be calm or peaceful in places that aren't cold. I spoke to a woman the other day. I mentioned that I had moved from California. She said "Rats! I have a daughter there that can't get out." Rats I asked? She told me that the homeless populations in southern California is now so bad that there are severe rat infestations. This is one of those things you don't think about. Everything feeds something else. I see that 5g, Covid, and fires will all increase homelessness in CA and in turn rats will have their time to shine. Strange. I thought our airbnb would take a while to get steady bookings with everything going on, but we are booked solid, every day, for weeks. People want to get back to nature and out of the cities. I see this trend continuing. The day that covid hit Angela and I got food poisoning. We were sitting in our old home in CA, puking our guts out and I remember saying "plan on our wedding and honeymoon being cancelled." We had to quickly shift to get out of there. We look back on it now with some humor as we made our initial plans to save ourselves amidst multiple trips to the bathroom. The move has come with many sacrifices. In some ways it has been very hard but there have also been so many rewards. I remember saying "if we hit August 31 and still haven't left, we leave it all behind and drive away." I'm glad it didn't come to that. We had a major court battle to be able to move with Caden which was very costly but thankfully worked out in our favor just in the knick of time. We worked multiple jobs while juggling with Caden at home, and as great of a kid as he is, I was really looking forward to a break with him at school. I'm sure he was excited about more socialization too. Now that it's delayed we are back to the drawing board to find more margin. Even with all the curve balls that have been thrown at us, I am still so glad we made the move when we did. I urge you not to fall into the trap of going directly from "it's too soon" to "it's too late." Many of the people I've said this to directly have 5 or more times the wealth and access to resources we do, but even as bad as things are now, they can't seem to let go. Be flexible. Don't get attached to things. Find ways to enjoy the little things in life that you can while all this is happening. There have always been struggles in life. What you do with those struggles defines the life you have. Storm clouds are gathering. Winter is coming. Next BlogWater is Life8/17/2020 Water is life. It is a strange substance that is so common to us we forget how amazing and dynamic it really is. Water is the gate between the quantum world (or what could be called the spiritual realm as there is nothing tangible there) and the physical world we live in. Hydrogen is the first element on the periodic table. It is the most basic element and contains one electron. When this first element mixes with oxygen, (a very non-tanglible substance) we get H2O, or water. Water is the gate to the physical world; the river that all must cross. Not all water is the same because that one electron of the hydrogen molecule is emitting light and light is information that tells the water how to behave. Many of you know that water can take on information and has memory because of the work with sound and water. (Dr. Emoto) If not, check it out. Water also behaves as a battery conductor. We make water in the mitochondria of our cells. (I have written in past blogs extensively about this.) Water conducts electricity and when we shift from sugars to fats our body switches from extracellular water to intracellular water. This is why people lose water weight on a keto diet. Water conducts. One of the major reasons why wireless tech is so bad is that it dehydrates us on a cellular level and in turn reduces the size of your quantum battery to hold charge to power the system that is you. In other words, the more we power our man-made wireless devices (cell phones), the less we power our biotech devices (our bodies). The 2 oppose one another on a spectrum. Dehydration leads to death. This is true for our bodies and plants alike. I moved from the central coast of California to the upper peninsula of Michigan. In CA water is an issue and everything is brown and dry. In Ironwood the ground is moist year round and I am 20 minutes from the largest freshwater lake in the world. It rains often in the months when it isn't snowing and everything is green (or white in the winter). Life is abundant here and the sheer amount of trees and plant life is a tell. Angela, Caden and I recently explored a beautiful waterfall that is a short hike 5 minutes from our home and it reminded me how dynamic water is. It moves and changes constantly. Water picks up information along its journey. We are surrounded by endless, unique forms of plant life and even mushrooms. We will have snow, lots of it and I'm sure you will get a frozen water blog this winter, but for now take a minute to appreciate the glass of water in front of you. It is life itself; a quantum gate in liquid form. Water is life. Don't forget it. Next BlogIronwood Update 8-10-208/10/2020 I have been very busy, so this blog has taken a back seat. Caden has been off school for the summer and the Rona, I've been working at a local store full time and am working on getting things set up in our home, which has been a huge success. If you read my past blog post you got to see our new puppy who is wonderful and also a lot of work. Angela and I also purchased a property that we have been setting up as an airbnb! We are very happy with how it turned out. Please share this link and check out our listing. We posted it last night and already have a reservation. We want this to be a home that is available for anyone who may want to get away. I have written about my predictions for the fall season and if you and your family need a place to go this is it. Please reach out to me if you'd like to come check it out here and we will help to accommodate. Here is the link: To Our Airbnb Life has gotten very simple for us. I honestly have no idea what is going on in the world as I have literally spent no time online at all. I have not been studying or reading, I have been building a fence and knocking out to do tasks on my list. Health seems very simple these days. All the quantum science is there but the perfect system of nature can be very simple. There is so much nature here. It is green. Yesterday we went and picked blueberries at a local farm. It was great and berries right off the bush are amazing. We found a local farmer who gave us a tour of his farm. He has cows, chickens, pigs, goats, and Icelandic lamb. He uses the animals to cultivate optimal grass growth. He has created a perfect ecosystem where everything feeds something else. We get fresh eggs, raw milk, beef, and pork from him and it all tases fantastic. It really exposes how fake and processed most food from a grocery store really is. Please support him any way you can. He is one of the few farmers left in the area doing things totally sustainably with no chemicals. He doesn't even plow, instead he rotates the animals in a unique sequence which cures the soil for optimal grass. Link to Whitney Creek Farm Here Nature amazes me; there is no waste. Humans have stepped away from our natural life in an attempt to be special but I am starting to see that all we've accomplished is dividing ourselves from our source. Each part of the dynamic puzzle that is nature is needed and if you find your place, you feel useful and at home. You have purpose and are part of something bigger than yourself. Please go back and check out some of the old blogs and talks. I am very proud of them. Here is one that may interest you. Link To Talk Even though so many good things have happened it does not mean that there have not been struggles. It is tough to leave a place you call home and realize just how little you mattered. It is as if I was never in California. A move like this lets you see a little bit what it will be like when you die. You're gone and everything keeps on going. Angela and I made this move with no family or friends here so the transition has been tough as we only have each other and we are both very tired. I understand why people don't move. It is hard but I would do it all again as I do not think things were sustainable where I was. It is tough to figure out who I am here. I'm not the Rob that I was in California and talking about magnetism to people doesn't seem very relevant. The adjustment takes time. I see that there is some strange health baseline that people are unconsciously trying to get to. In cities where the environment is bad people are more healthy to offset it. Here where the environment is amazing I see people drinking, smoking and gorging themselves on junk food. It's all very interesting as if there's some strange balance of having pleasure and avoiding pain. It's not my place to tell anyone how to live. The culture is different here. Less focused on how things appear and that is both good and bad. In any case, where ever you are reach out. I miss my conversations I have had with many of you. Stay tuned. I hope to get back to blogging more soon (Caden starts first grade soon so I'll have some more time). Thanks for being part of my journey. Next BlogHealth Blog LibraryAuthorRob Alexander is on a journey to learn not just about health but everything else. Archives
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